Challenge #2… Tune in & Question…

If you read our last blog, and took up the challenge to take a step back and look beyond the surface of what is often seen as the ‘behaviour’ of a child or ‘inaction’ of a parent to understand what might be going on behind the scenes, here is challenge number two…

Tune into the conversations around you. The real ‘test’ is to take these conversations we are exposed to daily and offer some probing questions. ’Why do you think she was carrying on like that?’ ‘Do you think there might be something else going on?’ ‘How do you think it would make her mother or father feel when this happens?’ ‘Did you offer a smile or tell her she was doing a good job?’ Just a few simple questions like this offered to others around us may open their minds to an alternative narrative about others. This state of empathy can have a real impact on individuals and families. We know that if parents feel more supported and less stressed, this leads to more positive parenting and a sense of hope, which in turn helps our children to thrive. We all know that if children are thriving, our shops, towns, communities, and regions also prosper.

Many of us will have driven or visited our hometowns over the Christmas and New Year break and for those who have been ‘home’ we can probably see firsthand the changes over time; some are fabulous and others, particularly population decline, are particularly more notable. Despite the size of a town or the physical number of residents, we all agree that every individual in these special places deserves the right to have equitable access to resources that support them to be the very best version of themselves. Whilst there is some way to go in achieving equitable service access for rural people, we can continue the legacy of what makes the Wimmera such a great place. The local people are our richest asset, and how we as people of the Wimmera choose to welcome, support, and empathise with others will influence our future.